Biggest kid issue is she is bossy. I agree with them! We have talked about it. Today I told her I am guessing everywhere she has been she goes in and takes charge of the littles for the Foster mom. That becomes her job. She first said well if mom isn't there I baby sit. I said no even when mom is there it is easier to let you do it because you do it well. She agreed. I told her she couldn't have my job! I LOVE my job! She gets to be a kid and a sister not the mom Then we talked about that it does bug the kids since they have a mom that is a mom. She is going to have to learn a new role. She has been adopted out of her job. This was on the way home today we will see. I know it is a HUGE habit. She is good over all with the littles. I watched her in the pool today and the way she watched out for them and played and just was good with them. I do have to chuckle at the fact I have her now and not Foster mom.

Today everyone is sleeping late.  I have one child up.  He even made coffee when he got up.  I seldom make coffee if I am up first until others get up.  I just drink it all if I do.   We had talked about going to the flea market, but when I got up and looked at the radar I nixed that!  It has now been raining up there for 2 hours off and on. 

Our other plans for today or to go to my grand daughters birthday party about lunch.  If it is raining I think we will skip that too!  Staying home sounds really good.

I am tired.  I know it is more a mental tired than physical.  It is part of adjusting to a new family member.   In time I will adjust and not be stressed and on guard to put out fires before they flame into uncontrolled blazes.   For now I am stretched think with lots of, "Mom we need to talk!" times from each of the kids.  I try each time to make time to hear their complaint.  Some are good some are oh well adjust!  

I hope everyone has a blessed day!  I am off to have coffee with my husband!